The Use
and Effects of Sarcasm
Sarcasm,
described as a single word or action that can have so many different meanings
and interpretations in language and literature.
Some people consider sarcasm a hurtful and demeaning thing, while others
like myself find it very comical and a playful use of language. Known author Oscar Wilde sees sarcasm as “the
lowest form of wit, but the highest form of intelligence." There is not one exact definition of sarcasm,
but most dictionaries define sarcasm as “mocking, or ironic language intended
to convey scorn or insult” (Dictionary).
The subject of sarcasm is complex because many factors are
involved. The following factors affect
the presence, or degree, of sarcasm in everyday language: exaggeration, the nature of the speaker, relationship
of speaker to victim, level of the criticism, and whether or not the criticism
is being made in private or in front of an audience (Dauphin). In other words, everyone takes and reacts to
sarcasm in a different ways, females especially reacting more negatively to it.
The
origin of sarcasm in literature cannot be set back to one certain date, or
period of time. Even though, it has long
been a huge impact in literature as a source of humor, or just simply to prove
a point using a different technique.
Many biblical scholars say that sarcasm was even used in the Bible, in
verse 11:9 of Ecclesiastes (Freeman).
The verse reads "Rejoice, young man, during your childhood, and let
your heart be pleasant during the days of young manhood. And follow the
impulses of your heart and the desires of your eyes. Yet know that God will
bring you to judgment for all these things". The biblical scholars say that this can be
interpreted into "if you want to be judged by God, do whatever you want
(Freeman)." This is considered to
be sarcasm because it is saying you should go ahead and do something seen as
negative, even though knowing you are going to be judged in the end. Along with the bible, sarcasm has been used
in many other famous and ancient literature, from authors such as William
Shakespeare, and Geoffrey Chaucer. More
recently, some famous authors include Mark Twain and Matt Groening (Writer of
The Simpsons). Even though nowadays, we
see sarcasm in almost every novel and television show that we watch.
Sarcastic
transactions used in everyday conversation break down into six forms such as:
social control, declaration of allegiance, establishing social solidarity and
social distance, venting frustration, and humorous aggression (Dauphin). In social control, sarcasm is used as a
control mechanism to reprimand members of a certain group when undesired
behavior is used. An example would be
congratulating a member of a sports team after a severe loss. Declaration of allegiance is when sarcasm is
used and directed at yourself, like telling yourself “Great Job”, after missing
an easy basket in a basketball game.
Venting frustration is pretty self-explanatory, and is used in
disapproval or anger about something.
For example, saying “This is the best steak I have ever had” even though
it was bleeding red when you ordered it well done. Social solidarity and social distance is
directed more at others, and used in the sense of “not being good enough for
someone or something.” Saying things such as “Look at that fabulous shirt,”
even though you think it is completely hideous. Humorous aggression is the one
I see most commonly used, and it is sarcasm that is used to be funny and
express humor by stating the opposite of a belief, or the truth. An example would be saying “Did you see that
amazing win last night?” even though you were talking about the Gamecocks who
lost terribly. I see all these types of sarcasm used in my everyday life,
whether it being me using it or hearing it from the people around me.
With
sarcasm now being a part of our everyday lives, from the annoying commercials
we watch to the elaborated magazines we read, it affects almost all of us. Personally as a very sarcastic person, I never
take any offense to the witty and derogatory comments that people may say, or
that I read about. That being said, when
I am the one saying or writing the sarcastic comment, I usually don’t mean any
serious harm. This coming from a female
might sound kind of strange, because multiple studies show that sarcasm affects
females in more of a negative way than it does males. Even though being a female, I do agree that
females do react more negative to the use of sarcasm.
Along
with gender, there are many other social and cultural factors that impact how
you interpret a sarcastic comment.
Things such as your occupation, social class, family structure, and
ability to make/maintain relationships can affect your reaction (Blasko, 186). With all these factors in mind, still in
everyday usage, males make sarcastic remarks almost twice as much as females do. With that being said, studies show it is more
common for males to understand sarcastic remarks and interpret them in a
positive manner (Blasko, 187). Since
females do have a harder time interpreting sarcasm in the correct form, it
usually results in a negative reaction to the sarcasm used.
Another
study was conducted at The University of Pennsylvania with thirty different
people being surveyed, and the surveyed group consisted of fifteen males and
fifteen females. The goal of the study
was to gain insight on peoples experiences and perspectives about sarcasm in
different types of relationships (Dauphin).
The study asked questions such as “Is Sarcasm a Negative Thing?”, and
also if sarcasm can end both friendships and relationships. Surprisingly enough, no males found sarcasm
to be a negative thing to the four girls that answered yes. Fourteen out of the fifteen males surveyed
thought sarcasm to be just lighthearted humor, while the female responses were
all across the board. Females also admit
that they either would be or have been emotionally hurt to a greater extent by
other females than males admit to having been emotionally hurt by other males
(Dauphin). 67% of females also say that
they would be sad and concerned if a good female friend made sarcastic remarks
to them, while only 40% of males said they would be concerned or upset(Dauphin). Overall this study shows us that females
react more emotionally than males to all types of sarcasm, which makes females
more prone to be negatively affected by it.
Apart
from all the studies conducted, and the facts written, I also agree with this
argument based on personal experiences. I have had sarcastic interactions with both male
and female friends growing up, and as I still do now. Being the sarcastic person that I am, I have
always noticed a difference in the way different genders react to my sarcasm as
well as to others. A perfect example of
this was my first day in one of my classes this semester. We had to get in small groups, and do the overplayed
thing where you introduce yourself and say a few things about yourself. Not knowing anyone and being a bit shy, I
introduced myself and said few comments, one of them being over the top
sarcastic about the class. The two males
in my group laughed, while I got the strangest and dirtiest looks from my
female group members. It didn’t take me
long to realize that the females were very offended by what I had said, and
from then on out had a negative attitude towards me. This personal experience
relates back perfectly to the study done at The University of Pennsylvania that
stated less than half of females saw everyday sarcasm as lighthearted humor,
which I was intending (Dauphin).
With
both factual knowledge and personal experiences combined I strongly believe
that sarcasm plays a huge role in today’s society. You can barely make it through the day
without hearing someone mocking another, or the cheesy sarcastic television
commercials. Even though sarcasm does
play a role in both genders, it is apparent to say that females do react more
negatively to the use of sarcasm. I see
how sarcasm affects females more negativity in my everyday life; from my own personal
experiences, to the things I watch on television, and read in books. All you have to do is take a second and really
look at female’s reactions to sarcasm, and you will soon agree.
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